Calm Strategies
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The Scooter That Helps My ADHD Kid Channel Energy and Calm Down
The Scooter That Helps My ADHD Kid Channel Energy and Calm Down The Scooter That Helps My ADHD Kid Channel Energy and Calm Down Just the other day, I found myself in a familiar scene: my seven-year-old son was enthusiastically climbing the couch while my daughter was racing around in circles, both of them brimming…
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The Book That Guided My Child to Understand Love and Friendship
The Book That Guided My Child to Understand Love and Friendship One afternoon, I found myself sitting on the living room floor, surrounded by crayons and half-finished drawings, while my seven-year-old son struggled to express how he felt about a friend who had suddenly stopped playing with him. My younger daughter was doodling, completely absorbed…
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Why Your ADHD Kid Falls Apart on the Car Ride Home (And How to Make the 17 Minutes Less Brutal)
Most parents do not know there is a name for the after-school car ride meltdown. Once you understand the biology, the ride gets shorter, calmer, and a lot less personal. Here is the 5-step reset window protocol from a mom who has driven the loop both ways.
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The 3-Sentence Repair: What to Say to Your ADHD Kid After You Yell
I yelled at my seven-year-old at 6:18 p.m. on a Tuesday. I knew what I was supposed to do, and my brain went blank. This is the three-sentence script I wish I had open on my phone.
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When ADHD Kids Hit the April Wall: What End-of-School-Year Burnout Actually Looks Like
End-of-year burnout is real, predictable, and hits ADHD kids harder. Here is what the research says, what to watch for, and what has helped in our house.
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The 3:45 PM Reset: First 45 Minutes After School That Save the Whole Afternoon
After-school meltdowns are nervous system data, not defiance. Here is the 5-step 3:45 PM reset that keeps the whole afternoon from imploding.
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How Movement Rewires the ADHD Brain: The Science Behind Big Body Play
If your ADHD kid seems to need to climb on everything, crash into everything, and spin until they fall over, you are not imagining it. Their body is asking for something their brain needs. Our “crash pad” is a foam play couch with the cushions pulled off — ours is a Nugget (sold direct at…
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How to Create a Calm Down Corner for Preschoolers Step-by-Step
Finding Your Calm in the Chaos Picture this: you’re trying to make dinner with a toddler hanging off your leg, another kid is having a full-on meltdown over a LEGO piece, and the clock is ticking. I’ve been there so many times. That’s why I decided a calm down corner for preschoolers was a game…
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8 After School Calm Down Activities to Reset Kids’ Moods
Ever had one of those days where your kid hops off the school bus looking like a tornado just blew through? I’ve been there — my son once burst through the door, shoes still on, and immediately collapsed on the floor, dramatically moaning about how unfair life is. You’ve got to love the enthusiasm, but…
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10 Calming Activities for Your After School Calm Down Routine
You just got home from a hectic day, and the house feels like a tornado just swept through. Your kids are bouncing off the walls while you’re desperately trying to find your calm in the chaos. Sound familiar? I get it—getting your little ones to switch gears after school can honestly feel like asking a…