Mary’s Product Picks

Tools I’ve tested in my own ADHD household. Real use, honest limitations, no fluff.

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BIG FEELINGS KIT — $9.97

Big Feelings Kit

20-page printable kit: 10 emotion posters, a feelings wheel, flashcards, and breathing reminders. The exact tools we use in our house to help my kid name what he feels before the meltdown hits.

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BIG BODY PLAY

Movement & Climbing

Pikler triangles, rope swings, mini trampolines, crash pads. The regulation tools that burn off ADHD energy and settle the nervous system.

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SENSORY & FIDGETS

Sensory & Fidget Tools

Fidget cubes, stress balls, sensory bins, weighted lap pads. The desk-friendly tools that help ADHD kids focus without disrupting the classroom.

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HOME ORGANIZATION

Home Organization for ADHD

Visual schedules, chore charts, clear bins, airtight containers. The systems that reduce friction in an ADHD household.

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PARENT TOOLS

Tools for ADHD Parents

Books, journals, and regulation aids for the adult in the room. Because you cannot co-regulate from an empty cup.

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EMOTIONAL LEARNING

Books & Emotional Learning

Picture books, feelings decks, and conversation starters that help ADHD kids name what they feel before the storm hits.

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How I pick what goes here

Every product on this page has either (a) been used by someone in my household, or (b) been tested by a specific friend or fellow ADHD parent whose judgment I trust.

I say what I love AND what falls short — because no product is perfect, and parents need real information, not hype.

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